So I have created a summary of two opposing sides of the story...
From the perspective of hearing people:
- the children did not have a choice in the decision, it is not fair and immoral for the children to have disabilities just because the parents wanted their children to be same as them
- for deaf people, it is harder to live in a world mostly full of hearing people and is mostly designed for hearing people
- by being deaf, it limits one's potential to get a job, to get a spouse, to communicate with people outside of the Deaf community or to merely have a normal life
Overall, hearing people are not hundred percent content that there are some people in Deaf community that are willing to let their children walk on more difficult road in life.
From the perspective of deaf people:
- even with the lack of hearing, deaf people live happy lives
- there is a tight community who supports each other like family and is more connected
- there is no correct definition of "normal". Just because people can't hear does not mean they are not "normal" or cannot live "normal" lives
- deaf people does not necessarily feel "disabled". To eyes of people who has been hearing for their entire lives, it may seem like a tougher life but people who are born deaf have no trouble living as a deaf person
- it is a discrimination against "disabled" people if the society allows to abort "disabled" babies but not "normal" babies
- if deaf couple has a hearing baby, it is so easy to feel disconnected with their child because the child can easily block out the parents
Overall, deaf people feels as if there is nothing wrong with being deaf, in fact, it will create more intimate bond between the child.
It may be true, to some degree, that deaf people will have harder time in life. However, it is not because they have a mutated gene, it is because the society that we live in is more acceptable to hearing people, the "normal" people.
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